And when you ask for her number or email, don’t make it look like you are begging for some favor. Because it’s NOT a favor. Anything less than total dominance these days makes you look real UGLY. And the more DOMINANT you are, the more LEADERSHIP you show, the more ATTRACTIVE you will be. Everything you do should pass through the filter of DOMINANCE- your words, your humor, your body language, your decisions. If you are about to make a joke, ask yourself *Is this self-deprecating or is this more of a making-me-look-SUPERIOR type of joke?*

Hey, guess what?
WOMEN ARE DOING THIS ALL THE TIME.
To MEN.

So attractive women will toy with nice guys till their heart's content. But of course, if we are to believe the b.s. we are bombarded with by Oprah Winfrey types, men are always the bad guys.

The truth is there is only a very small percentage of men who are *bad guys*.

Okay, back to THE WORKPLACE issue:
As I said, there used to be a time when women and men had far less interaction with each other en masse since they worked in separate fields completely. This meant that for a man in a relationship, his wife was home, and that allowed for far less opportunities for other men to *play game* on his *woman*.